How Do You Know If You Are A Hater? (Top 10 List)

Haters are everywhere. They hate on the most smallest and stupidest things. Haters seem to dwell in places where people have a lot of wealth, fame, and contributions to their name. The most infamous haters like Rush Limbaugh, Sean Hanity, Perez Hilton, Kanye West, Ann Coulter, etc. Also the rest of the haters that everybody already know about. Including but not limited to former Bush officials, extreme right/left wingers, racists. This blog was inspired by this article from Politico.com. It tells how some former Bush officials are fuming over the White House’s continued use of the historical “unprecedented.” As if they have a copyright to the term. Also you can click on the link if you want to read our “A Message To The Haters” piece, where we talk more about haters.

Top 10 List on how to Know If You Are A Hater

 

10.)     Hate on anybody that has a better life than you.

9.)     Criticize folks for their actions, if given the opportunity-you would do the same.

8.)     All you do is talk bad about people all day long.

7.)     Never give credit, even when the person have performed a good deed.

6.)      Take everything out of context.

5.)       Uses other haters talking points.

4.)       Bitterness! Think people actually care what you think.

3.)      Whine! Make up any kind of excuse just to prove your so called point.

2.)      Bring up old stuff to counter new things on a daily basis.

1.)        Always starting a controversy. Whether it’s an argument, fight, 

            convincing uninformed people to join your cause.

Tell Me More About The Supernatural!

The Topic of this discussion is:  Supernatural. 

 

Question:    Yo, the name is Maria. I just wanna know more about the scary stuff! I love yo blogs ’bout ghosts and evil spirits. I always found the supernatural and paranormal topics interesting. Y’all seem to know a lot ’bout these subjects. Can you tell me more? I appreciate it. Thank you.

Maria

 

Answer:   Sure, Maria why not! Well, the unexplained  have always been a taboo subject to discuss. Certain popular tv shows like A Haunting, Beyond Belief: Fact or Fiction, Unsolved Mysteries, have always dabbled into these fields. Actually, it’s  very exciting to know about! Many people repeatedly mentioned that they would like to see a ghost. They don’t. Nobody should want to see that. Because there is no such thing as ghosts. Instead, evil spirits or specifically-demonic presences pretend to be ghosts. They do this in order to fool and haunt humans.

Animals always sense the presence of an unnatural occurrence before humans can. Whether it’s an upcoming natural disaster or a change in the temperature. So if your dog usually behaves but starts barking all of a sudden, when nothing seems wrong, then that might be a clue to an unseen presence.

Here’s a few hints if you want to know if you experience a haunting.

• If you feel a sudden drop in the temperature, such as a cold blast of air
• If certain areas of your house feel different. Like a cool spot, where it would naturally be warm.
• Unexplained voices, footsteps, sounds, movements
• If you start feeling sick or stressed.
• If you feel possessed by something.
• Then the most significant of all, if you actually see a presence or spirit.

 

If you would like to know what you should do during this desperate time, then you can read one of our previous posts about evil presences. You can read it here.

 

Christian Whitewater

 

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Are Black Men Affected By the Slave Mentality More Than Black Women

Hello Again!!!

Welcome back, Denise Wilson from her well deserved vacation!

So sorry, we been gone for so long but now we are back blogging for your entertainment pleasure!

We have not forgotten you at all, so we hope you haven’t forgotten us neither!

We will continue to blog nearly everyday like we been doing before, when we first started our blog.

It’s been over five months since we started this blog site.

We thank all of you for tuning in to us, leaving responses, and helping us to expand our website.

Since nothing lasts forever, soon our main blogger will be leaving us for new gigs in the future.

But until then, we will provide interesting, controversial, exciting posts for all of our readers to enjoy!

Yours Sincerly,

The RHJSG Crew

The topic of this discussion is Race/Realtionships.

Question:    Hi, My name is Andrea. I’m twenty-eight. I’m an African American woman. Never married. No kids. And I’m proud of my life! I date mostly my race. But I have dated outside my race too. I prefer to date black men. About 98% of my dates have been black men. Majority of the time, I’m not attractive to white or other non black men. I’m like other African American women, we mainly prefer black men. Just like most white men prefer white women.

Frankly, I am getting sick and tired of some black men dating a lot of these white women. Also I’m not alone in this regard. A bunch of these trifling so called brothas love to dissed us sistas, and date only these barbie doll girls. I don’t really care who they date. That’s them. They can date their white women, but they don’t got to talk bad about us! A lot of the time, it’s these brothas that’s no good. Not us sistas. I know not all black men act like this. But a lot of them do. It seems to me, they are affected by the slave mentality more than black women.

At least, we stick with our race mostly. Whenever a black woman do date outside her race, it’s because maybe she fell in love with this man, not because he’s a certain race. So, Denise, Cheyenne-what do y’all think about this. Y’all talk about this kind of thing off and on, but y’all never go into a lot of detail with it. Like I said, it don’t bother me to see black men with non black women, but what does bother me is when these niggas dissed and talk stuff about black women.

They say that they are going by their bad experiences with a few black women, but not all of us are like that. You can’t group certain people together and say all of them are like that. What these men need to understand is that if they keep meeting the so called jackasses-then maybe they need to check themselves. Maybe it’s them that are the jackasses, not the women!

Andrea

Answer:  (Cheyenne)  Andrea, I understand what you are saying. But I have to say, I don’t agree with black men being affected by the so called slave mentality more than black women. A lot of people are like that. All across the world. For generations, people were taught this very narrow minded, way of looking a certain way is better than people that don’t look like that.

Til this day, in other foreign countries-a lot of people think they are cursed, if they are not a lighter complexion and is not male. Women are brainwashed to believe that if they only can have daughters instead of sons, then they are cursed as well. Plus, these folks try to lighten their skin color so they can fit into that ignorant mentality.

But to your point again, it’s true that African American men and Caucasian women make up most of the interracial relationships, especially in America. Even though the percentage of mix relationships are small, but they are on the rise. In today’s generation, it is more acceptable to younger folks. And they seem to engage in it more than some older people.

It all comes down to each person’s preference when they are deciding whom to date. But they should also know that by paying attention only to the outside, they are setting themselves up for disaster in their social lives.

Cheyenne

Denise:    I agree with Cheyenne’s points one hundred percent. It’s true that black men are not affected by the slave mentality any more than black women. Anybody can be affected by it, if they let their minds get carried away. Racism and ignorance towards anybody is a waste of time and shouldn’t be on anybody’s radar.

I know because I use to be a racist. I had to let it go, because it only makes it harder on you, not the people you’re hating on. Just like I mention before in previous posts, skin color like beauty is only skin deep. You would be cheating yourself out of a real relationship if you focus only on race.

I have heard so many white men and black women disapproving when they see a black man alongside a white woman. The gossip becomes a negative mixture of racism, sexism, and pure ignorance. It’s definitely not the way to go. It is a shame when some black men diss black women and put white women on a higher statue.

There I agree with you, Andrea-that the only jackass is the man, not the women they’re talking about. Just because you dated a few women that you  think did not  check your favorite list on your radar, doesn’t mean that all the women of that race are like that. People should just ignore these ignorant folks and don’t pay attention to them. Don’t give them relevance. Just let these people dwell in their ignorance!

Again this set of thinking can go to anybody, any race. But people put this mentality with black men because a lot of them seem to be set with it more than everybody else. Anyway, that’s what people seem to notice in the media and other everyday situations. People should just give others chances, stop hating or being racist towards people that you don’t even know, perhaps will never know. This type of attitude says more about you, than it does about other people.

Denise

(Be sure to tune in tomorrow to check out our new post about the supernatural)

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Pres. Obama’s Shout-Out to the Critics (Reality Check Poetry)

 

 Nobody thought that a man name Barack Hussein Obama could win the general election.                                                                                           

With his extraordinary speeches, inspired people to get out and vote.     

Reflecting on the past eight years, people wanted to make the right selection.

Scare tatics wasn’t going to provoke them to settle for the status quo boat.

 

Now, it’s only been over nine months, and critics already starting to fuss,

Arguing that he hasn’t save the whole world yet,

Lying, manipulating uninformed folks among us,

Griping why everything isn’t rescued overnight-

He never made a promise like that!

 

Protesting silly tea parties across the nation,

Complaining about Obama Care,

Don’t want to wake up and see the real reality they’re facing,

When all the president wants is for the insurance companies to be fair!

 

No matter what this man does, haters criticize it all.

They keep underestimating him,

Unaware of their inevitable fall.

The Party of No action is growing dim.

 

If they wasn’t protesting eight years ago, why are they doing it now!?

When Bush drugged the country to the gutter, No complaints, No howls.

Is it because the new guy is different-so they’re calling foul?

Where were they? No credibility then, so no credibility now!

 

These same folks cheered when the USA lost the chance to host the Olympics.

And they want to bitch about a Nobel Peace Prize, that’s got nothing to do with them.

  An ironic twist that was all over the media, which resulted in a sore loser epic.

Mad because it wasn’t given to them, that’s why they care.

 

If there ever was a  movie titled, “In the Life of a hater,”

Maybe they should take the starring role,

Better realize, their opinions will be irrelevant sooner or later.

 Obama might can give them his reelection win- 

which would be the best revenge served cold!

“Life Ain’t Fair”

The topic of this discussion is Religion/God.

Question:   Cheyenne, Talk to me. I’m a religious person. A christian. I don’t go to church because I’m trying to find the right place to worship. To me, life ain’t fair. We shouldn’t even have to go to a place of worship. Because this world should have been over years ago. Generations ago. For the life of me, I just can’t understand why God has allowed this world to go on much longer. When Satan the Devil disobeyed God, he should have destroyed him from the beginning. Along with Adam and Eve when they sinned against him. I know why he did this. If it had been me, I would have done things in a more fairer manner. All those that sinned will face the consequences, while others that worship me would have had everlasting life. People throughtout the ages, including today, should not be held responsible for other peoples  sins. What do you think?

Anonymous

 

Answer:   Well, Anonymous, I agree one hundred percent with your assertions. We all know God works in mysterious ways. He has everything perfectly timed in his own way. People can waste their time doing nothing if they want to, because in the end-when the end of the world do come, it would be like the days of the great flood in Noah’s days. God waits for no one. As a christian myself, religion has always been one of my favorite topics of discussion. Even if we don’t post about it much here. But believe me, we will. Other than agreeing with your opinions and knowing that if I were the creator, I would have done the exact same thing that you would have done. I just hope you and many others find your preferred place of worship. I wish you the best.  P.S.* Remember that a perfect god doesn’t make mistakes, he has a reason for everything that he do!

Cheyenne

 

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Fuck Off, World!

 

Be very alarmed this is an extremely controversial post by an extremely controversial person!

Hi, I’m Cheyenne Summerville. I am twenty five. A regular blogger on this site.

Our main blogger Denise Wilson is on vacation until next month. So  ’til then, I’m in charge of the posts here!

Now, that I think about it, who in the hell would let a cussing addict, controversial blogger like me, post random blogs on a site like this!?

Lol, the crew here, that’s who! For many of you, that don’t know me already, here’s my MO:

• Honestly, I tell it like it is-the truth. No sugary around the edges, little white lies.
• I use common sense. No Bias towards anybody.
• Excuse my language, if I have to lash out at anybody or anything.
• Lastly, I will quickly turn the game around on any hypocritical critic.

Now let’s gossip! The title of this blog:  Fuck off World, is exactly the point of this post.

Don’t you get sick and tired of people always got something negative to say?

It makes you want to say, “Shut the fuck up, jackass!”

Nobody cares what you have to say! I certainly don’t. As a diva, but a good one.

I know that I don’t let anybody’s criticism get to me. And you shouldn’t neither.

From all of these haters, critics, racists, jealous morons, trifling idiots-it makes you want to just lash out and hit them! Lol. Man, who would want to listen to people like this all day?

When it comes to the latest fashion craze, the message is thin is in for women everywhere.

But the message should be healthy if you want to live to be sixty!

They want us to know that this new skirt is chic, while those pants are so yesterday.

So what, you can dress however you like!

Throw out that old ugly grandma’s panties right now! Look sexy for him or he will wander!

And why should you care if he do, if he wants you, he will stay with you, if not he will blow whichever way the wind blows.

Just maybe that thong or bikini wear or whatever under garment, is too damn uncomfortable for your big ass!

LOL! It could be true!

Now let’s move on to haters. Haters, who cares about them! You shouldn’t.

They can spend all their time hating on others if they want to, that’s them.

Haters feel piss that they can not be the person that they’re hating on.

They are jealous and envy that person. Haters are weak, pathetic, miserable jackasses!

The truth: worthless motherfuckers!

They know that they would give anything in the world for whatever that person have.

Or maybe to be that person and have that attention. Fuck them and their hater’s MO too!

I don’t hate. Never have and never will. And you shouldn’t neither.

Racists, are the same as haters. But with a little bit more.

Basically, racists feel intimidated by people who they think are less than them.

Usually, they have low to no self-esteem. They try to make themselves feel better by discriminating against others on false grounds.

Also they let themselves be brainwashed and influenced by this tragic country’s history.

Just like the haters, racists are irrelevant in the average, common sense person’s view. So another fuck you, to them too!

People in the world need a real wake up call! Or real-wake-the-fuck-up-call! How could anybody be so damn stupid!?

If you are so superior the way you think you are, then bitch, you will be in Heaven with God!

Who are you to hate and criticize and be racist to people that you don’t even know.

Never met before in your worthless life!

Motherfuckers like that, are the reason the world is so fuck up today! So fuck off to all of them!

I know critics in the media are getting paid to come up with the next controversial news story to feed to their viewers.

But when certain topics entice the already looney people out there, then there should be a limit and fine line to cross.

I don’t have to go into details, people should already know exactly what I’m talking about. Various issues.

So the next time, anybody began spewing negative, ignorant bullshit, don’t be shy. Go ahead and tell them, “Shut the fuck up! And fuck off!”

Who Am I: These Curious Readers Want To Know!?

 

Who exactly am I? Denise Wilson, the main blogger on this site!

Our crew here on RHJSG help me to pick out the best and controversial email related questions and comments from curious readers. They ask me a variety of questions, some personal, some ask for advice, and other general related topics.

I don’t mind responding to different questions or comments from our readers.

I am going on vacation,  so I will be taking a break from the virtual world for a few weeks.

Since this would be my last post until next month. Our gossip blogger, my close friend, Cheyenne Summerville will be constantly posting her own blogs on this site for your controversial viewing.

Nearly everyday, next week, starting on Monday. So be sure to tune in then. Though I will be back posting with our crew in early November.

But before I leave, I have posted my final blog for this month. So I would love for all of you to check it out here on my personal site. I hope you all enjoy it! Because the answers are dear to my heart! Happy Halloween!!! See you next month!!!

Love your friend,

Denise

“My Daughter Hates Being Biracial!”

We want all of our readers to be aware that this is a controversial gossip site. So expect a variety of controversial gossip here! We will choose the most controversial and interesting email related questions/comments to post as one of our blogs.

We receive tons of feedback from our readers like you. Many enjoying our weekly gossip between viewers and Denise Wilson. So we will continue our theme here. Note that Denise will be on vacation all next week.

So one of our gossip bloggers, Cheyenne Summerville will be posting nearly everyday next week, including our popular email related posts. Enjoy!

The topic of this discussion between our main blogger Denise and a reader is:  Race Issues

Question:   Hello Denise, I’m a young father of a ten year old son and seven year old daughter. I am a white guy in an interracial relationship with an African American woman. My son is from a previous relationship. I had my daughter with my current wife. Actually, this is the first mix relationship that I’ve been in. All of my former girlfriends were the same race as me. My kids are terrific overall. But my daughter is very color struck. I know you all post different topics covering race and racism. Denise, you talk about how a lot of people seem to be affected by the “slave mentality.”

I believe my daughter is affected by the “slave mentality” but not the way it usually goes, when a lot of dark skin girls want to be light skin. Instead, it’s the opposite with my daughter. She’s proud to be black and dark skin. Maybe a little too proud. She’s a beautiful little girl, just like her mother.  She go around saying that she is one hundred percent black. Yes, she looks it but she’s not just black. She’s white too. I fathered her. She took most of her mother’s skin color. But she have all of my features. She always want to know what color someone is, if she is unable to tell what they are.

At school, all of her friends are black. Whenever I buy her dolls, she only wants black dolls. She won’t even play with the white dolls. The white dolls are collecting dust on her toy shelf. My wife and I don’t talk about race much. Especially in front of her. We try to tell her that everybody is the same, but she won’t listen. She tell us that she knows this then she continue to behave this way. I believe that her friends at school influenced this attitude of hers. Also the media has played a big part too. I want her to be proud of her European heritage like she is with her African heritage.

I know society seem to abandon calling someone biracial altogether. Either you’re white or not. It’s all about what color you look. I’m glad that she’s proud but I don’t want her to abandon half of her heritage. She’s a nice and sweet girl. She’s crazy about her mother and I. So is my son. I want her to be happy with both sides of her heritage not just one. I read so many posts about how all white men are evil, we are not all like that. I’m certainly not. I never been racist or color struck in my life. I wasn’t raised that way neither. I never saw color when I dated women. It’s just the women that I dated happened to be white like me, until I met the love of my life. 

I rarely post or ask questions on any website. Of all the sites that I been to, you don’t seem bias like the rest. You post common sense advice. So that’s why I want to know, should I talk to her even more forcefully than before? Come out and tell her that it’s wrong to dislike being biracial. I will greatly appreciate your advice.

Anonymous

 

Answer:    I’m glad that you chose to post a question here! We try to post interesting, relevant topics so our readers will keep coming back for more! Without the bias, so we will have that credibility to speak out on whatever. Now, on the topic of your question, yes, you should talk to your daughter more forcefully than before. It’s best to start when she is still young. Just tell her, “Sweetheart, it is wrong to dislike your full heritage. Be proud of both.”

It’s good that she is proud of being black and dark skin. Like you mention earlier, a lot of people are not proud. They are affected even more by the slave mentality. She seem like a good little girl. As parents, you and your wife have done a good job. I know you are worried now about her behavior. It’s really not that bad at this point. She is continuing to mature.

So it might be a phase she is going through. I will suggest that you continue to talk to her. Both you and your wife. Just tell her what you been telling her. People are the same. Color like beauty is only skin deep. One God made the whole world. Also tell her that you are glad that she is proud of part of her heritage but now she should be proud of her full heritage too. Show her pictures of famous and successful biracial people. Tell her they are proud of their full  heritage and she should be proud of hers too!

Denise

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Who’s The Funniest: Jon Stewart, Bill Maher, Jamie Kennedy

 

 

 

 

All of these celebrities are funny in their own way. Always entertaining. 

Cracking up their audiences. No one’s safe from their satirizing critiques. 

Dabbling in a variety of media formats. Whether it’s tv shows, talk shows, movies, stand up comedy, books, etc.

They have proven time and again that they can handle the media with ease! 

Jon Stewart delivering his masterpiece from the Daily Show. Funny, down to earth humor that can be silly and thought provoking at times. Lashing out at critics.

Sometimes these same critics, especially in politics, conservatives accused of scapegoating these socalled leftist shows of Jon Stewart, Bill Maher, and Stephen Colbert.

Bill Maher serving his critiques from Real time and various formats. Maher is pure common sense funny. Controversial. Criticizing everyone. He throws stinging blows in all directions, nomatter who’s the target.

Critics and supporters alike. It’s obvious that Bill Maher is the most controversial of the three.

He can be harsh like Rush Limbaugh, but he’s funny with common sense. Not stale and bashing for no reason.

Whenever he bash, he always give a reason why he’s bashing.

Also he is one of the rare white comedians that’s not afraid of talking directly about race related issues.

Speaking his mind  which has gotten him in a little trouble.

Jamie Kennedy impersonating anybody that’s out there. Portraying over the top characters.

Kennedy sort of like a milder version of Sacha Baron Cohen.  

Joking at the expense of others. Whether it’s his tv shows, movies, Kennedy is always poking fun of other celebrities in the media in order to enhance his routines.

Though his former satirical reality show “The Jamie Kennedy experiment” was cancelled due to declining ratings a few years back, but his fans have his movies and tv shows to check out.

All of these media personalities have their own independent styles and fan bases.

So the fans can decide who’s the funniest to them!

He’s Into Oral Sex, I’m Not! Should I Date Him?

 

 

 

 

 

*Congratulations to Our Gossip bloggers for our 100th Post!

  Below is a controversial exchange between our main gossip blogger, Denise Wilson and a reader. We recently started something new to begin our *100th post on our site, RHJSG. From time to time, we will post email related questions from readers to our gossip blogger, Denise. We will pick the best and most memorable questions or comments to post as one of our blogs. Then Denise will post her answer/response to the question or comment. Hope you enjoy our controversial gossip!!!

The topic of this exchange is:  Sex/Relationships.

 

Question:  Hey Denise! My name is Casey. btw I am twenty-one like you! I really like your gossip blogs that you have with your friends. My friends and I always check out your stuff! I’m a regular reader of your blogs. To me, you give the best advice. You seem very smart. I like your new advice column too. Common sense and no stereotypes.  And y’all have the coolest gossip on the web! I also noticed that you don’t post much about sex and relationships. If you do, it’s very rare. You guys mostly talk about politics, celebrities, racism, and culture stuff. Btw, why did you leave twitter!? Maybe I should start a petition for you to come back cuz your tweets were so fun and entertaining! Better than over 95% of tweets out there now! Whether you post this or not, that’s your decision, Hell idc!  

I have a question about  sex. I been dating this guy for about six months. I haven’t had sex with him, yet. LOL! But I know he wants it ASAP! He’s a great guy. Goodlooking. Tall, dark, and handsome. Blond. dreamy green eyes. I really do like him a lot. But the turn offs for me is that he’s an older guy. He’s 35. I’m 21. He’s almost old enough to be my father! My father is 40! Plus, he’s into oral sex! I always thought that people who do shit like that are disgusting freaks! That to me is nasty! I hear a lot of everyday gossip that everybody is getting head and it’s the norm, cool thing to do. But I don’t think so! I don’t follow the crowd. I never have.

I guess I’m a virgin when it comes to that mess! LOL But in reality, I’m no virgin but my past boyfriends were not into that! They were decent, down to earth type of guys I adored but there was no chemistry between us. That’s why I broke up with them. Usually, I date guys around my age. This is a first for me. This guy is nice and cool. He have money. His own rides and crib. I like that a lot. But I’m no gold-digger! I’m currently in college. My folks don’t know about this. I’m keeping him a secret from them. But they may know about it now, because they read your blogs regularly too.

I don’t mean to sound like a dumb blonde. But I need help now with this problem. I’m asking you now, should I continue to date him? I like him but idk if it’s love yet. I’m such a amateur when it comes to love. You seem so much smarter than me! I bet you would know what to do! So should I stay with him? Break up with him? What should I do? I’m dying for the right answers! What would you do in my situation? P.S. I will tell as many people that I know to check out your sites! Please get back to me whenever you can!

Thanks Casey

Answer:   Well Casey, there’s plenty to do. First of all, thank you for being a loyal reader and I definitely appreciate your praise of our site. I didn’t have much of a reason for leaving twitter other than I got very bored with it! Anyway, seriously, I am not a relationship expert nor sex therapist. This is my opinion only. I agree with your beliefs toward oral sex. If you really like this guy then stay with him. If you don’t then break up with him. You said that you didn’t know if it was love or not. You should figure it out soon if you want to decide what’s important for you.

My advice for you is that you should realize by now  that there’s an unclean, unhealthy world out there. All kinds of sexually transmitted diseases. Be careful. You can catch one of those diseases very easily. Certain diseases you get, it can stay with you always because there isn’t a cure for it.  Make sure that the person that you are with is the right one. If you have sex with this man, then be sure to protect yourself and use the necessary precautions with him. Risky decision making can lead to severe consequences later in life. Also unplanned pregnancies, devasting heartbreaks, regret, horrible breakups, etc. Especially with young people. Even though the same old song, age doesn’t matter. Sometimes it do.

Are you sure that you want to get deeply involved with this older man? Certain qualities to watch out for are jealousy, controlling, abuse. Though this can happen in any relationship but especially if one or both of the partners are  younger or older. Since you ask if I would date a man like that, my answer will be no. But I can’t tell you if you should stay or break up with him. That wouldn’t be fair and it would not be my call to make. Even though you ask for my advice. I can only tell you what I would do. Give you common sense advice. And tell you to be careful.  Finally, the rest is up to you. Hopefully, with this advice, you will be able to make your decision. I hope that it is the right one. You seem to be a smart girl. So I hope that you will figure out what’s best for you. Good Luck, Casey and remember to go with your heart in the end.

Denise

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