The Unfairness of Sexism

All women know by now that the media and the public are harsher on us with questions and remarks like, “What is she wearing?” “She is fat!” “Who does she think she is?! and so on. This have been going on for generations. It’s like nothing we do is good enough.

People are always complaining. Men think that this is a man’s world, and we women are just living in it.

Don’t get me wrong, not all men are that way, but many are. The media sure is. Remember when Hillary Clinton was running for president, there was alot of sexism (and racism too). Certain things people talk about, they wouldn’t have use that language if it was a man.

Women are the backbone of this country. Taking care of the kids, cooking the dinner, keeping the house clean, and holding the family together. Now, more and more women are going into the workforce and furthering their education.

Yes guys, women can do a man’s job, too! Probably even better than you! Women shouldn’t let others dictate their lives. The media is doing a good job of that. Always bringing out the latest makeup, wardrobes, trends. Tempting us to buy this and then that. Telling us skinny is in and average is out.

Women should realize that there is nothing pretty about skin and bones. Those stick skin models do Not look pretty or healthy. They look anorexic and sick. So ladies don’t starve or puke your guts out trying to look like a size 0.

It is not worth it. Unhealthy, malnourished, health problems is not attractive at all. If a man don’t like you for who you are then he’s not worth your love anyway. You can find better out there. You need a man who will love you for you, not what he think you should look like.

If he cheat on you, please don’t stay with him. Especially if he shows no remorse. Lose the zero and find you a hero.

If he have to cheats on you, sneaks around behind your back, tries to play you for a fool, then he’s sorry and not worth your time. Ladies there are real good men out there, though it’s rare, you just got to take your time and choose wisely. It’s worth taking your time to get in the right relationship than rushing through and having it fall apart.

Also don’t always pay attention to the media, they are making money and trying to get more business from people like you.

When the people are talking in their sexist ways about how women should just let it be and everything will be okay. She should know her place and so on.

Yeah, we know our places alright. They’re not only in the bedroom and kitchen, but it’s anywhere that we want to be in life.

 

*Published in Arkansas’s Sync Weekly 03-14-12/Vol. 5 Issue 47

(Published before on June 27, 2009 on this site with revisions)

Politics GOP v.s. DEM

      

          

         What else can be said about the Democrats and the

Republicans. With this ongoing battle between healthcare:

Public or private or government run or whatever. I’m like

shut-up already and stop playing  politics with the public’s

healthcare. People should be  able to choose what they want.

         If they like their healthcare then they should be able

to keep it. If they want something different then they

can choose what kind of plan they want. I honestly believe

everyone have a right to heathcare.

            As an Independent or centrist, or whatever  term the

media call for people that don’t fall in any specific party

line these days. If I were a democrat, I’ll probably be a

conservative democrat or if I were a republican, I’ll

probably be a moderate one. I am conservative on alot of

issues on one side of the political spectrum and then I’m

liberal on the other side. (I’ll go in more detail in another

post later on.) Enough about my political views now.

            I just think the GOP should just stop unnecessarily

criticizing  President Obama on everything, anything that

he does.That make them look more and more like the

party of NO and no new ideas, but the same old-not-

working politics of 2001-2008 or Bush-era failures. The

GOP should offer constructive criticism and new

ideas for the public.

           The general public’s like, “Ok, I heard what you

said about Obama’s policies. They’re all bad for  me. I got

that part already. So stop repeating it. But what I do want

to know, what’s your policies or the alternative.” See what

I’m talking about. It’s makes so much sense. So the GOP

needs to stop talking about Obama all the time and tell us

what their plans are.

           Now, don’t get me wrong. They can still offer relevant

critiques. That’s exactly what President Obama and his

administation are doing, and it’s the right approach.

Lastly, I just hope the GOP take a page out of the Obama

playbook before it’s too late and they lose in  another,

bigger landslide in the 2010 and 2012 elections.