We hope nobody! But as we know, a lot of people did!

It is so naive to be thinking, “Why hasn’t President Obama done anything yet for”-fill in the blank.

Everybody knows that critics and haters are not going to like his job performance.

But to all of the supporters and the people who don’t mind giving their president a chance to do what he said he was going to do, then that becomes a problem.

Already it is approaching the president’s one year anniversary in office. 

But a lot of folks are acting like it’s been longer than that. Like he’s been in office for couple years or more.

If these so called critics weren’t complaining about former presidents Bush, Clinton, Bush senior, Reagan, Carter, and who ever then they don’t have any credibility whatsoever to complain about President Obama.

It all sound like a double standard to us. Obama has not change at all.

He was the same way throughout the campaign and he’s trying to govern the same way.

The president is doing what he said he was going to do. True, that certain things are going to take longer.

Some promises are going to be put on the back burner for now.

Also we shouldn’t forget that everything has to go into a process before it can pass.

He has to work with Congress, he can’t do it all by himself, right?

That makes sense. Obama has constantly said that he’s the president for everybody, not only for blacks, gays, liberals, independents, etc.

We all know he would not have gotten elected if he was only a  president for certain groups.

He needed a majority to have gotten elected. People should just give the man time to do what he promised.

If enough time has gone by, and nothing’s change-then if you don’t think he’s done a good job, then don’t vote for him again next term. It’s as simple as that.

At least, let him get through half of his term first, before you start throwing things at him.

It’s just that people are so impatient. They expect everything overnight.

Again we need to remember that it took years for this mess to unravel.

So it’s going to take more years to get out of this deep black hole.

And don’t forget, if you think you can do better, then why don’t you run for president in 2012 against Obama!

It is a hard job being president, you know. It’s not a easy task.

If anybody is surprise or was expecting Obama to become a superhero, then they are seriously misinform, naive, and ignorant!

We are not surprise nor were we expecting anything out of the ordinary, but we are surprise that a lot of folks are complaining now.

So again we have to ask, “Who expected Superman on Obama’s first year in office?”

Lady Gaga is not this generation’s average pop star!

I personally don’t like her style, but I admire her for the nerve to flamboyantly reinvent herself again and again.

She’s different. Unique. Weird. Controversial. All in one! I find her interesting.

I listened to some of her songs, seen some of the music videos. She is very popular. Top selling. A lot of people like her.

She have many fans. She’s sort of the Madonna or Cher of this generation. Sporting all kinds of crazy, outrageous, silly costumes. Flaunting her sex appeal. Trying out all kinds of moves.

Haters and media critcs have dubbed her eccentric, freak, weird. One controversial headline after another.

She’s not the pretty faced Britney or Christina or even Beyonce. Not in your face like Pink or Adam Lambert. But her style, moves, wadrobes/hairstyles overshadow her just-average looks.

Once fretting that she dyed her hair blonde/platinum to keep from being compared to Amy Winehouse, (even though it seem to me to be a little weak on her part) but her overall look makes her stand out and memorable to other nuance/one hit wonder pop stars.

Also buying her fans pizza, and seeming to be down to earth, can score some points in any potential fan’s books.

Recently, being named one of Barbara Walter’s fascinating people this year was cool too. I think she deserved it.

But during the interview, even though she open up some about herself, and admitted that she was kind of bisexual, but when Barbara ask her, if she actually had sex with women, she seem to shy or close up some.

 I was a little surprised that she didn’t want to talk about that topic as much. Though she didn’t have too.

She didn’t become an Adam Lambert with “Deal with it!”

Nor did she say, “I’m gay/bisexual and proud of it!” “Not ashamed,” like Fergie.

Again I thought she should have been more forceful. It was a little weak on her part there too.

Really, nobody would have been surprise. Obviously her fans thinks she’s talented, so she must be doing something right because she’s hot on the charts now.

Even though I’m not a fan of Lady Gaga, I can still give my props and respect, when a star has become very popular and is a top seller.

She might be on the verge of becoming the next big international superstar like Michael Jackson or Tina. Who knows? The mainstream public taste seem to change very quickly.  

What did you think of Lady Gaga’s interview? Do you think she was a little shy during parts of her interview? Watch here

(Written by Jordan Parker)

The Topic of this dicussion is: Racism/Cultural Issues.

Question:   I read that you said that you use to be a racist. I use to be one too, but I’m trying to change all of the way. I still have certain issues with different people, but I’m trying to break away from it. I won’t give my ethnicity because of privacy issues. So, can you tell me how you got over your racism?

Anonymous 

Answer:    That’s right. I use to be one. But I’ve change. That seemed like a lifetime ago. How did I change? One day, I realize that it wasn’t worth it, to not like people I didn’t know. Other people don’t care whether you like them or not! They don’t have to prove anything to you.

Also feelings of hate, jealousy, envy, can take its toll on your mind’s mentality. And that can cause stress on you-not the people that you are hating or being racist about. They are living their lives just fine. While you are being miserable, stuck in your misery. Hating on people that you will probably never know.

Basically, racism is intimidation. Racists are followers with twisted mind sets that like to copy other ignorant peoples talking points. Instead of developing their own. A lot of these folks are raised like that. Brainwashed and manipulated by individuals trying to prove a non existent stupid point. Racism may not be what it once was, but it came down a whole lot. And a lot is still out there, but it’s mostly on the downlow, not in your face racist.

So all in all, I hope that you can change the way I did. It’s hard but give it your all. You don’t have to tell me your ethnicity because it doesn’t matter, anybody can be a racist. It’s just that with certain cultures, it seems to be more of it. Without saying anything more, everybody know exactly what I’m talking about. Here’s hoping that people will get over racism before it destroys them.

Denise

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Haters are everywhere. They hate on the most smallest and stupidest things. Haters seem to dwell in places where people have a lot of wealth, fame, and contributions to their name. The most infamous haters like Rush Limbaugh, Sean Hanity, Perez Hilton, Kanye West, Ann Coulter, etc. Also the rest of the haters that everybody already know about. Including but not limited to former Bush officials, extreme right/left wingers, racists. This blog was inspired by this article from Politico.com. It tells how some former Bush officials are fuming over the White House’s continued use of the historical “unprecedented.” As if they have a copyright to the term. Also you can click on the link if you want to read our “A Message To The Haters” piece, where we talk more about haters.

Top 10 List on how to Know If You Are A Hater

10.)     Hate on anybody that has a better life than you.

9.)     Criticize folks for their actions, if given the opportunity-you would do the same.

8.)     All you do is talk bad about people all day long.

7.)     Never give credit, even when the person have performed a good deed.

6.)      Take everything out of context.

5.)       Uses other haters talking points.

4.)       Bitterness! Think people actually care what you think.

3.)      Whine! Make up any kind of excuse just to prove your so called point.

2.)      Bring up old stuff to counter new things on a daily basis.

1.)        Always starting a controversy. Whether it’s an argument, fight, 

            convincing uninformed people to join your cause.

The Topic of this discussion is:  Supernatural. 

Question:    Yo, the name is Maria. I just wanna know more about the scary stuff! I love yo blogs ’bout ghosts and evil spirits. I always found the supernatural and paranormal topics interesting. Y’all seem to know a lot ’bout these subjects. Can you tell me more? I appreciate it. Thank you.

Maria

Answer:   Sure, Maria why not! Well, the unexplained  have always been a taboo subject to discuss. Certain popular tv shows like A Haunting, Beyond Belief: Fact or Fiction, Unsolved Mysteries, have always dabbled into these fields. Actually, it’s  very exciting to know about! Many people repeatedly mentioned that they would like to see a ghost. They don’t. Nobody should want to see that. Because there is no such thing as ghosts. Instead, evil spirits or specifically-demonic presences pretend to be ghosts. They do this in order to fool and haunt humans.

Animals always sense the presence of an unnatural occurrence before humans can. Whether it’s an upcoming natural disaster or a change in the temperature. So if your dog usually behaves but starts barking all of a sudden, when nothing seems wrong, then that might be a clue to an unseen presence.

Here’s a few hints if you want to know if you experience a haunting.

• If you feel a sudden drop in the temperature, such as a cold blast of air
• If certain areas of your house feel different. Like a cool spot, where it would naturally be warm.
• Unexplained voices, footsteps, sounds, movements
• If you start feeling sick or stressed.
• If you feel possessed by something.
• Then the most significant of all, if you actually see a presence or spirit.

If you would like to know what you should do during this desperate time, then you can read one of our previous posts about evil presences. You can read it here.

Christian Whitewater

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Hello Again!!!

Welcome back, Denise Wilson from her well deserved vacation!

So sorry, we been gone for so long but now we are back blogging for your entertainment pleasure!

We have not forgotten you at all, so we hope you haven’t forgotten us neither!

We will continue to blog nearly everyday like we been doing before, when we first started our blog.

It’s been over five months since we started this blog site.

We thank all of you for tuning in to us, leaving responses, and helping us to expand our website.

Since nothing lasts forever, soon our main blogger will be leaving us for new gigs in the future.

But until then, we will provide interesting, controversial, exciting posts for all of our readers to enjoy!

Yours Sincerly,

The RHJSG Crew

The topic of this discussion is Race/Realtionships.

Question:    Hi, My name is Andrea. I’m twenty-eight. I’m an African American woman. Never married. No kids. And I’m proud of my life! I date mostly my race. But I have dated outside my race too. I prefer to date black men. About 98% of my dates have been black men. Majority of the time, I’m not attractive to white or other non black men. I’m like other African American women, we mainly prefer black men. Just like most white men prefer white women.

Frankly, I am getting sick and tired of some black men dating a lot of these white women. Also I’m not alone in this regard. A bunch of these trifling so called brothas love to dissed us sistas, and date only these barbie doll girls. I don’t really care who they date. That’s them. They can date their white women, but they don’t got to talk bad about us! A lot of the time, it’s these brothas that’s no good. Not us sistas. I know not all black men act like this. But a lot of them do. It seems to me, they are affected by the slave mentality more than black women.

At least, we stick with our race mostly. Whenever a black woman do date outside her race, it’s because maybe she fell in love with this man, not because he’s a certain race. So, Denise, Cheyenne-what do y’all think about this. Y’all talk about this kind of thing off and on, but y’all never go into a lot of detail with it. Like I said, it don’t bother me to see black men with non black women, but what does bother me is when these niggas dissed and talk stuff about black women.

They say that they are going by their bad experiences with a few black women, but not all of us are like that. You can’t group certain people together and say all of them are like that. What these men need to understand is that if they keep meeting the so called jackasses-then maybe they need to check themselves. Maybe it’s them that are the jackasses, not the women!

Andrea

Answer:  (Cheyenne)  Andrea, I understand what you are saying. But I have to say, I don’t agree with black men being affected by the so called slave mentality more than black women. A lot of people are like that. All across the world. For generations, people were taught this very narrow minded, way of looking a certain way is better than people that don’t look like that.

Til this day, in other foreign countries-a lot of people think they are cursed, if they are not a lighter complexion and is not male. Women are brainwashed to believe that if they only can have daughters instead of sons, then they are cursed as well. Plus, these folks try to lighten their skin color so they can fit into that ignorant mentality.

But to your point again, it’s true that African American men and Caucasian women make up most of the interracial relationships, especially in America. Even though the percentage of mix relationships are small, but they are on the rise. In today’s generation, it is more acceptable to younger folks. And they seem to engage in it more than some older people.

It all comes down to each person’s preference when they are deciding whom to date. But they should also know that by paying attention only to the outside, they are setting themselves up for disaster in their social lives.

Cheyenne

Denise:    I agree with Cheyenne’s points one hundred percent. It’s true that black men are not affected by the slave mentality any more than black women. Anybody can be affected by it, if they let their minds get carried away. Racism and ignorance towards anybody is a waste of time and shouldn’t be on anybody’s radar.

I know because I use to be a racist. I had to let it go, because it only makes it harder on you, not the people you’re hating on. Just like I mention before in previous posts, skin color like beauty is only skin deep. You would be cheating yourself out of a real relationship if you focus only on race.

I have heard so many white men and black women disapproving when they see a black man alongside a white woman. The gossip becomes a negative mixture of racism, sexism, and pure ignorance. It’s definitely not the way to go. It is a shame when some black men diss black women and put white women on a higher statue.

There I agree with you, Andrea-that the only jackass is the man, not the women they’re talking about. Just because you dated a few women that you  think did not  check your favorite list on your radar, doesn’t mean that all the women of that race are like that. People should just ignore these ignorant folks and don’t pay attention to them. Don’t give them relevance. Just let these people dwell in their ignorance!

Again this set of thinking can go to anybody, any race. But people put this mentality with black men because a lot of them seem to be set with it more than everybody else. Anyway, that’s what people seem to notice in the media and other everyday situations. People should just give others chances, stop hating or being racist towards people that you don’t even know, perhaps will never know. This type of attitude says more about you, than it does about other people.

Denise

(Be sure to tune in tomorrow to check out our new post about the supernatural)

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 Nobody thought that a man name Barack Hussein Obama could win the general election.                                                                                           

With his extraordinary speeches, inspired people to get out and vote.     

Reflecting on the past eight years, people wanted to make the right selection.

Scare tatics wasn’t going to provoke them to settle for the status quo boat.

Now, it’s only been over nine months, and critics already starting to fuss,

Arguing that he hasn’t save the whole world yet,

Lying, manipulating uninformed folks among us,

Griping why everything isn’t rescued overnight-

He never made a promise like that!

Protesting silly tea parties across the nation,

Complaining about Obama Care,

Don’t want to wake up and see the real reality they’re facing,

When all the president wants is for the insurance companies to be fair!

No matter what this man does, haters criticize it all.

They keep underestimating him,

Unaware of their inevitable fall.

The Party of No action is growing dim.

If they wasn’t protesting eight years ago, why are they doing it now!?

When Bush drugged the country to the gutter, No complaints, No howls.

Is it because the new guy is different-so they’re calling foul?

Where were they? No credibility then, so no credibility now!

These same folks cheered when the USA lost the chance to host the Olympics.

And they want to bitch about a Nobel Peace Prize, that’s got nothing to do with them.

  An ironic twist that was all over the media, which resulted in a sore loser epic.

Mad because it wasn’t given to them, that’s why they care.

If there ever was a  movie titled, “In the Life of a hater,”

Maybe they should take the starring role,

Better realize, their opinions will be irrelevant sooner or later.

 Obama might can give them his reelection win- 

which would be the best revenge served cold!

The topic of this discussion is Religion/God.

Question:   Cheyenne, Talk to me. I’m a religious person. A christian. I don’t go to church because I’m trying to find the right place to worship. To me, life ain’t fair. We shouldn’t even have to go to a place of worship. Because this world should have been over years ago. Generations ago. For the life of me, I just can’t understand why God has allowed this world to go on much longer. When Satan the Devil disobeyed God, he should have destroyed him from the beginning. Along with Adam and Eve when they sinned against him. I know why he did this. If it had been me, I would have done things in a more fairer manner. All those that sinned will face the consequences, while others that worship me would have had everlasting life. People throughtout the ages, including today, should not be held responsible for other peoples  sins. What do you think?

Anonymous

Answer:   Well, Anonymous, I agree one hundred percent with your assertions. We all know God works in mysterious ways. He has everything perfectly timed in his own way. People can waste their time doing nothing if they want to, because in the end-when the end of the world do come, it would be like the days of the great flood in Noah’s days. God waits for no one. As a christian myself, religion has always been one of my favorite topics of discussion. Even if we don’t post about it much here. But believe me, we will. Other than agreeing with your opinions and knowing that if I were the creator, I would have done the exact same thing that you would have done. I just hope you and many others find your preferred place of worship. I wish you the best.  P.S.* Remember that a perfect god doesn’t make mistakes, he has a reason for everything that he do!

Cheyenne

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Be very alarmed this is an extremely controversial post by an extremely controversial person!

Hi, I’m Cheyenne Summerville. I am twenty five. A regular blogger on this site.

Our main blogger Denise Wilson is on vacation until next month. So  ’til then, I’m in charge of the posts here!

Now, that I think about it, who in the hell would let a cussing addict, controversial blogger like me, post random blogs on a site like this!?

Lol, the crew here, that’s who! For many of you, that don’t know me already, here’s my MO:

• Honestly, I tell it like it is-the truth. No sugary around the edges, little white lies.
• I use common sense. No Bias towards anybody.
• Excuse my language, if I have to lash out at anybody or anything.
• Lastly, I will quickly turn the game around on any hypocritical critic.

Now let’s gossip! The title of this blog:  Fuck off World, is exactly the point of this post.

Don’t you get sick and tired of people always got something negative to say?

It makes you want to say, “Shut the fuck up, jackass!”

Nobody cares what you have to say! I certainly don’t. As a diva, but a good one.

I know that I don’t let anybody’s criticism get to me. And you shouldn’t neither.

From all of these haters, critics, racists, jealous morons, trifling idiots-it makes you want to just lash out and hit them! Lol. Man, who would want to listen to people like this all day?

When it comes to the latest fashion craze, the message is thin is in for women everywhere.

But the message should be healthy if you want to live to be sixty!

They want us to know that this new skirt is chic, while those pants are so yesterday.

So what, you can dress however you like!

Throw out that old ugly grandma’s panties right now! Look sexy for him or he will wander!

And why should you care if he do, if he wants you, he will stay with you, if not he will blow whichever way the wind blows.

Just maybe that thong or bikini wear or whatever under garment, is too damn uncomfortable for your big ass!

LOL! It could be true!

Now let’s move on to haters. Haters, who cares about them! You shouldn’t.

They can spend all their time hating on others if they want to, that’s them.

Haters feel piss that they can not be the person that they’re hating on.

They are jealous and envy that person. Haters are weak, pathetic, miserable jackasses!

The truth: worthless motherfuckers!

They know that they would give anything in the world for whatever that person have.

Or maybe to be that person and have that attention. Fuck them and their hater’s MO too!

I don’t hate. Never have and never will. And you shouldn’t neither.

Racists, are the same as haters. But with a little bit more.

Basically, racists feel intimidated by people who they think are less than them.

Usually, they have low to no self-esteem. They try to make themselves feel better by discriminating against others on false grounds.

Also they let themselves be brainwashed and influenced by this tragic country’s history.

Just like the haters, racists are irrelevant in the average, common sense person’s view. So another fuck you, to them too!

People in the world need a real wake up call! Or real-wake-the-fuck-up-call! How could anybody be so damn stupid!?

If you are so superior the way you think you are, then bitch, you will be in Heaven with God!

Who are you to hate and criticize and be racist to people that you don’t even know.

Never met before in your worthless life!

Motherfuckers like that, are the reason the world is so fuck up today! So fuck off to all of them!

I know critics in the media are getting paid to come up with the next controversial news story to feed to their viewers.

But when certain topics entice the already looney people out there, then there should be a limit and fine line to cross.

I don’t have to go into details, people should already know exactly what I’m talking about. Various issues.

So the next time, anybody began spewing negative, ignorant bullshit, don’t be shy. Go ahead and tell them, “Shut the fuck up! And fuck off!”

Who exactly am I? Denise Wilson, the main blogger on this site!

Our crew here on RHJSG help me to pick out the best and controversial email related questions and comments from curious readers. They ask me a variety of questions, some personal, some ask for advice, and other general related topics.

I don’t mind responding to different questions or comments from our readers.

I am going on vacation,  so I will be taking a break from the virtual world for a few weeks.

Since this would be my last post until next month. Our gossip blogger, my close friend, Cheyenne Summerville will be constantly posting her own blogs on this site for your controversial viewing.

Nearly everyday, next week, starting on Monday. So be sure to tune in then. Though I will be back posting with our crew in early November.

But before I leave, I have posted my final blog for this month. So I would love for all of you to check it out here on my personal site. I hope you all enjoy it! Because the answers are dear to my heart! Happy Halloween!!! See you next month!!!

Love your friend,

Denise